20 Things to do if you are facing Domestic Abuse by Wife and Inlaws

1. Record Everything through Audio Video WhatsApp images etc when possible. Take back ups.
2. Report to the police for record before she does.
3. Meet a couple of male lawyers n finalize. If you get a bad lawyer. He ll kill you before ur wife does.
4. Keep your parents brother sisters away from the mess. To prevent them from legal trouble n stress.
5. Love your children but don't show love at the time of dispute. She ll use it against you. When in court Always ask for your visitation rights.
6. Keep your hobbies on. Workout, play sports to stay strong. It ll help during physical attacks.
7. Keeping a self defense weapon is not a bad idea as you could face a surprise attack.
8. File the case first if she is crossing her limits n getting violent.
9. Control your anger, show strength not agression. Any hint of extreme Aggression can lead to ur arrest.
10. Take help of friends relatives n organizations.
11. Hire a detective for your wife. Ensure you are not being followed.
12. Check your premises n car for any recording device she might have put.
13. Ensure that your phone isnt being tapped.
14. Don't get into self pity. It will weaken you. Don't overthink. It never helps.
15. Get into Meditation and Spirituality, it ll give immense peace and strength.
16. Remember who is the Man.
17. Don't be with negative people who discourage n scare you.
18. Don't do anything wrong. Never harm any one.
19. Never Leave your Job or don't shut down ur business. Money is your greatest support. Keep ur investments personal.
20. Don't Die. Things will only go up after going down.

These points come from years of experience.